Loltia Anyone Here Have Advice On Loltia Fashion?

Anyone here have advice on Loltia fashion? - loltia

I'm a tomboy, and recently I decided to go and find a style that for me a few words about me. I thought I would try the Lolita fashion, but do not know how to move. On the one hand, I've heard that on your own Lolita clothing, if it looks like a cosplay frowned. But I do not understand all the rules. I went to some websites, but do not think its right. Someone here has some advice for beginners like me? How do I know which style to choose?